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Mod for r/massage (u/uglyboy11 and u/HelloAndTheEmployees) is very abusive and harassing.

Both mods keep following me on reddit and posting defamitory info about me and keep bashing me. EVERY time I ask a question on r/massage, everyone always bashes me and I got sick of it so I vented on another couple of subs about my experience and then those mods followed me and harassed me, posted imgur images of my supposed "harassment" messages I sent to the mods. I wasn''t harassing the mods, I was simply stating my opinion about the r/massage sub. Some people are huge snowflakes these days. Butthurt over nothing.

Both mods keep following me on reddit and posting defamitory info about me and keep bashing me. EVERY time I ask a question on r/massage, everyone always bashes me and I got sick of it so I vented on another couple of subs about my experience and then those mods followed me and harassed me, posted imgur images of my supposed "harassment" messages I sent to the mods. I wasn''t harassing the mods, I was simply stating my opinion about the r/massage sub. Some people are huge snowflakes these days. Butthurt over nothing.

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Thanks for sharing! Now we know one more subreddit to avoid.

(I got banned from Reddit anyway because Ani625, a powermod I openly criticized, has good contacts to the admins.)

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