Always remember ... always ... There's always an upside. My philosophy is simple. We're men, we don't have a lot of safety nets ... we are the safety net. No one rushes in to save us, so we need to do that for ourselves and those who depend on us. You win some, you lose some, but somewhere in every win or loss there's a positive. You may not see it at first, but it's there and when you see it you learn something. That's what life is for a man ... others depend on us, so we can't afford to wallow in negatives. Winners always win ... they pick themselves up, dust themselves off and stand tall. It gets better, trust me. But only if you embrace the good and shake off the bad.