That sucks, dude. But the silver lining is I'm glad you gained sole custody. Way too often the courts think the mother is the best parent regardless of the circumstances.
Yep, she got a huge kick in the ass when I submitted our long forgotten "signed 6 month before marriage" and notorized prenuptial agreement to her divorce lawyer . She came into our marriage with next to nothing, I had houses and cars, kept separate bank accounts.
I had her go stay with her boyfriend while I watched the kids and she could go have her fun..... they who leave the house, lose the house in most states.
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