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[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Screams BPD aka Girlfriend from Hell Syndrome.

Talking openly about having had great wild sex with some other man just to make the beta male desperate and unsecure.

Everyone who has encountered one of those knows exactly what I'm talking about.

[–] • 0 pt

What the fuck is BDD? Some kind of new fetish shit or something?

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Borderline personality disorder. Basically they're a sociopath who can't commit to being a sociopath and are running entirely off of fee fees.

[–] • 3 pts

I don't know, I'll take the normal woman who has a good head on her shoulders over BPD princess from hell. But that's just me

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

BPD, sorry I wrote BDD first.

Borderline Personality Disorder.

If you ever are unlucky enough to encounter a woman with BPD, run!

[–] • 2 pts

The amount of mental gymnastics trying to somehow justify her being a whore in that thread is astounding.

[–] • 1 pt

Here's my take (31M): assuming you had not talked about being exclusive at that point, it makes sense that she wanted to explore the connection she was already feeling towards you and let it mature before adding physical intimacy to the relationship. However, this doesn't mean she is against casual sex, she just didn't want to have casual sex with the person she saw herself having a long relationship with. It's not hypocritical, especially since it's about a non-mainstream kink she explored for the first time - imagine it did not live up to her expectations and she never wanted to be reminded of that specific kink, how would that have played out for you?

There is no one-size-fits-all solution to relationships and you have to explore your feelings regarding this issue, but for what it's worth, I don't feel that your girlfriend was hypocritical in this situation.

However, this doesn't mean she is against casual sex, she just didn't want to have casual sex with the person she saw herself having a long relationship with. It's not hypocritical

Sometimes I wish i could reach through a screen and throttle someone

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As I was reading those posts it struck me that, for most of those redditards, they were fine with it because it was a woman doing it. I got the feeling that if it had been the guy doing it they would have been ready to hang him by his balls. Brave and stronk womans and such, you know.