He's shallow, she's a tubby. Why are we reading about it?
At 28, he's sees that she is well on the way to be obese and unhealthy by 35 and doesn't want that for her, himself of his children. It's not shallow to foresee a problem and avoid it.
He's not shallow. He's pragmatic and cars enough about her to get her to care about herself and their future offspring.
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