Thank you....but what about your wife, then? Weren’t you a party boy first?
I was and she knew it. She doesn't drink nor do drugs. I even told her I don't know how should could stand being around drunks while sober. I can't do it. I guess she liked being around me but she did get on me from time to time about my drinking so I'd slack off a little for a while.
That’s where I am...he’s a drunk but I rather enjoy his company and I like him as a person, but I’ve never acknowledged how much he imbibes and he tries to hide either how much he drinks or hides his hangover afterwards. I just want to acknowledge that I know he’s a drunk bastard so he doesn’t have to feel so awkward.
Confront him when you know he is. When I quit, I did it for me and no one else. It was a hard thing to do.
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