What are the chances that he could create an alt and mind his P's and Q's here, where we just split our time between platforms?
I like the idea of also using that forum, but I also think for the sake of getting the most people to think about these topics, it is still useful to promote as much dialogue here as possible.
There's no doubt we'd still benefit from a place where we can carry on the more sprawling private conversations that we are used to, which go on for weeks.
I'm also not happy about the fact ARM was banned. I disagree with it on principle, but I also recognize ARM's proclivity for, um, antagonizing people, particularly once they've told him not to do something. While I disagree with the choice to ban his account, we might think it was a tree - at least at this site - that he went barking up.
That's my attitude currently. You might be able to convince me otherwise, re: loyalty to ARM or something. But still, there would be nothing preventing ARM from participating in both places, with the understanding that in this one it's become obvious that getting on AOU's bad side is not a good idea. I suppose it invokes an ideological problem, which has me a bit torn at the moment. On the one hand, I'm thinking, "Free speech, mother fucker. Say it.", and on the other it's, "There's some common sense that we have to appeal to. You may not like that a cop has certain authority to supersede the one true law, but if you directly disobey a cop at the time they're giving you an order, you can expect problems."
Of course, the issue here is that we think the law is being applied unjustly, i.e. pinging an admin cannot be construed as spamming. In reality, it reduces to: "Stop pinging me. It's annoying me. I'm banning you for annoying me."
I guess I'm trying to find the best compromise, where we don't lose access to this site and some of the potential for talking about important topics here, but are also able to continue our discussion with ARM in a place that has less fickle banning habits. Please criticize me if you think I'm being a bit 'lukewarm' here.
Don't get me wrong. On the emotional side of this, my thought rests with ARM. Burn it down. But I'm also trying to think logically about it. Do we think that ARM antagonized AOU in ways that weren't visible to us? If we do, then what I've said above stands. If we think ARM did not, then AOU was completely outrageous to ban him for what amounted to one or two pings. Especially given the fact that I saw people title-pinging AOU in posts just last night, and as far as I could tell, there were no warnings issued about that use of mention functions. In general, I do find this trend a bit troubling, which is the general disdain for former Voat members that is kind of hitting us like a 'door in the face' at the moment. The welcoming of Goats back around Christmastime made it seem otherwise, but now that a few weeks has passed, I am definitely noticing some of the mask coming off. I don't mean to say they are 'hunting' Goats down, but that the rules are being applied unequally where admin has knowledge that someone was previously a Goat (or, their patience is about 1/10 as thin for Goats).
I think we've begun to build something good hear, and I don't deny the value of getting people to think more critically about these topics. Even just the opportunity to get the dissident sphere to think more about God and less about hating minorities is worthwhile motivation for staying here - the former will help us, the latter will not. So in that sense, frequenting those websites of dissidents with the most traffic makes sense - so long as the arbitrary and personal censorship coming from the admins doesn't become targetted or ideological, in which case this would be a much lower traffic reddit.
My main concern for the present was just establishing a line of communication with ARM, getting him onto SVF or elsewhere, so he isn't left in the dark. He hasn't really been weighing in on these discussions at all much lately, anyway.
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