I'm sure you're not wrong, in a number of cases.
What's important, is finding a woman who actually believes she is jeopardizing her immortal soul by being unfaithful to her husband (which is completely, objectively true). Such a woman is very rare these days, but those are the ones that deserve as many babies as God allows.
If you've preserved yourselves until marriage, and stay away from porn and/or lascivious lifestyles, you won't know what you're missing. Otherwise, things get a bit more complicated. But if both man and woman has stayed faithful throughout the whole engagement, and not given into temptation, there's a much greater chance the man can compel the woman through moral force alone. If she doesn't accept that, she's trash, and not worth marrying in the first place.
I beg to differ on available stock, targeted strategy can locate this type of wife within months. I could take you to visit a different church every week for years and never leave the State.
Toss in Wednesday And Sunday Evening and the timetable accelerates exponentially.
Willingness to change environments when faced with limited or poor prospects is a incel problem not a society issue.
It's not about changing the acceptable bar level, its about intelligence to hunt with intentions. People have been sending their kids to college to meet mates in America for hundreds of years. The prospects of small towns is terrible. Luckily humans congregate making availability simple.
Hey that’s great; I’m getting to the age where I have to start thinking about marrying off my daughters. I’ve not gone into details with any of them, but they know generally what God expects of them. I used to dread it, but I’ve since seen a few great-looking families within driving distance, so it’s starting to look a bit more reasonable.
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