I guess I oppress men, because I go out of my way to find something to compliment guys around me on every day. It might be something as stupid as, "Oh your eyes are a lovely shade of green and that shirt looks fabulous." However, I usually try to compliment them on something they do like, "Thank you so much for getting that box way up there for me. You are so kind." I have had women look at me like I was flirting, but the truth is I have sons. I want people to see that being nice to men is okay and the right thing to do.