I have encountered *one* alphabet in my life who recognized boundaries and chose celibacy to avoid propagating degeneracy which was inflicted upon him as a child. Every other one was some combination of suspected pedo or wanting to promote degenerate shit to children to propagate it. Which is in line with other forms of child abuse. For every victim who was e.g. beaten as a child, only a minority will choose the boundary of "I will never use violence on a child and will ostracize anyone who does". The remainder are all repeating the behavior or apologetics for it. And thus abuse perpetuates itself.