There ought to be a class on warning signs women give off so naive guys don't have to figure it out after the fact, then his buddies can say, "What, did you fall asleep during class?" The thing is, women give off signals and the odd comments that clue you in to what is their objective and how they really view you. I watched an old movie years ago about an old mafia boss who gives his young protege the keys to a nice car he can borrow for a first date with a chick he's interested in. In the movie the old guy is telling the young kid that when he opens the car door and helps the lady in to watch and see what she does as he's going around to get in the driver's side. If she just sits there and does nothing but wait for him to unlock his side of the car then dump her. It's over before it even started. If she leans over and unlocks the door for him she's a keeper because she's showing she cares just as much about his comfort and making things easier for him. We'd already been married a couple months and frequent arguments and nonsensical reasoning on her part were just driving me crazy. Then I remembered that movie and next time I took her out in my vehicle I watched. Sure enough. I let her in, close her door and she just sits there as I walk around to the other side. What really pissed me off was when I realized that she didn't even need to reach across as I had power locks. She could have just flipped the switch for me to let me in on the other side.