Yah. By then she was already being a pain in the ass so I had the marriage annulled a few months later. When I told her I was going to have it annulled she ran to an attorney and filed for a divorce. Going for the gold. Hahaha. She failed.
Bummer, too much of that nowadays.
There ought to be a class on warning signs women give off so naive guys don't have to figure it out after the fact, then his buddies can say, "What, did you fall asleep during class?"
The thing is, women give off signals and the odd comments that clue you in to what is their objective and how they really view you.
I watched an old movie years ago about an old mafia boss who gives his young protege the keys to a nice car he can borrow for a first date with a chick he's interested in.
In the movie the old guy is telling the young kid that when he opens the car door and helps the lady in to watch and see what she does as he's going around to get in the driver's side. If she just sits there and does nothing but wait for him to unlock his side of the car then dump her. It's over before it even started.
If she leans over and unlocks the door for him she's a keeper because she's showing she cares just as much about his comfort and making things easier for him.
We'd already been married a couple months and frequent arguments and nonsensical reasoning on her part were just driving me crazy. Then I remembered that movie and next time I took her out in my vehicle I watched. Sure enough. I let her in, close her door and she just sits there as I walk around to the other side. What really pissed me off was when I realized that she didn't even need to reach across as I had power locks. She could have just flipped the switch for me to let me in on the other side.
Watch how she treats her father, that's the best indicator.
Annulled? You had no sex at all?
Hahaha. I was out on jobs every week and at best was home for only a couple nights a week. In the 11 months we were together I calculated the number of times we had sex vs the amount of money I spent on the relationship. I would have been far better off financially if I'd just paid a hooker and stayed in motels.
But, anyway, annulment of a marriage can be for a number of reasons. Lying about intentions for getting married, lying about religious views, lying about past history. Having motivations unknown to the other party most particularly in opposition to the other party's stated goals and reasons for marriage and keeping these details secret.
My annulment met all these criteria but I chose to focus on religion as she brought it up herself and walked right into my narrative. It was uncanny how she fell right into it all on her own.
I went over the religion angle with my attorney in her office as she took notes. Her deception, agreement to not violate my religious views and respect my biblical perspective. She had agreed to all that.
Then in court she claimed I forced her to accept my religion. I am Messianic Jewish. In that I'm not a Christian in the traditional way but neither am I Jewish as I am very much against the Talmud and teachings of modern Judaism by the orthodox Rabbis.
Anyways, I rebutted her attorney quite well and he moved on with his questioning and kind of forgot about the exchange.
Haha. In our closing arguments my attorney referred back to her own statements and actions concerning these issues and her lies. Also her deceptions on other matters concerning false filing of IRS documents to deprive me of money and reward herself. False statements to police, false representation of her marriage history and other unsavory activities that are completely counter to a functioning relationship. The judge hammered her good.
First time ever I've seen a whore go out of her way to fuck her own self.
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