Yes lots of churches have dropped the ball and allowed women and their emotionality to run rampant. Keep looking for a church. But even more important; get into the WORD. Read God's Word, understand the heart of God, pray to him in Jesus' name and with repentance and ask for him to guide you to where he wants you to be. You're right Jesus never raged in his fathers house; because anger isn't from God, it comes from Satan, when you see this you are right to be wary, people that dont have love and self-control are not servants of God. I pray you continue your search; the remnant is everywhere, God will lead you to them

God be with you.