That's great, good for you mate. Hope you found something better.
Fortunately her work related stress as such has been dealt with as she quit but the burnout was quite a bad one and her resilience is still close to zero and she's still struggling with accepting the outcome. We've done pretty much what we can to make everything less stressful like moving out of the city and just trying to take it easy.
Unfortunately the situation with her mom is getting worse and we have pretty much no way out of it.
Hope you found something better.
I did! I essentially retired at 45. I created a passive RE business and made far more $$$ than while busting my ass in engineering for 24 years. No regrets on the decision but really missed the challenges of bleeding edge tech and working with the brilliant people involved in it. "Retiring" young allowed me the freedom to be there to help my widowed mom in her last 8 years of life. I'm so very thankful for that.
If your wife's BP doesn't improve, the BP meds will be necessary. My ex-gf's son (think HS years to early 30's and 6' 260lbs of muscle, shaped like a linebacker) had very high BP, she put him on BP meds early. You could tell when he hadn't taken his pills, he would get quick tempered and irritable after a couple of days.