I normally tell young girls who seem insecure that merely acting more feminine is enough to get the attention of guys they find attractive. Literally just wearing a dress and having long blonde, red or brown hair is enough these days to have men give you some oogly eyes. We're far to removed from the better parts of femininity and it saddens me to see someone women get better upon hearing this advice. Oops that should say bitter, not better and some not someone.