Oh, I am sure plenty have. Those denigrates just didn't enjoy the experience and felt "wrong" after and will never speak of it again. Other than to tell others to do the same so they don't feel like such a big failure. You know that "thing" has posted pics there and made an effort to "hook up" and everyone either did not fit "it's" standards or saw what it was and noped the fuck out. Mental illness + fetish is not good for any society (actually, both are bad for society but it is worse when combined).