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India still has arranged marriage. I can tell you that it's a disaster, especially when the parents are incompetent decision makers. Women often cheat, kill their husband, Men often cheat, or are gay secretly, there is no love in the family, and thus constant fights, If the couple can't divorce for whatever reason, then one of them plots to kill the other one, women are often given to old men who don't treat them well. arranged marriage is a disaster to happen. What we need is gender neutral laws when it comes to marriages instead of catering to women. What I have noticed in many Indian families is they hate blacks, and love white men, not women though, because many still believe white women are whores. So they don't want their son to marry a white woman.
India is India. Indians are not White, and they do not use White systems of arranged marriage. Your descriptions of Indian arranged marriage in your post and in your reply to @ReformingBoomer are likely accurate, but they don't describe White tradition. I may only use two words because more than two words will challenge attention spans, but Europe has its own history with arranged marriage. Even after (or sometimes before) the fathers decide that an arrangement if favorable, there is courtship. In this courtship, the man will prove his mettle, per the conditions of her family. That might be an act of heroism or a demonstration of values, but it is White tradition nevertheless.
Bringing Indian concepts like Sati into a discussion on White tradition is largely irrelevant if you aren't actively contrasting the unique systems.
Doesn't matter which system it's, you should be able to make decisions of your own life, because then you are be careful of the decisions you make since it's about your life. Don't let someone else to decide your life, and how it goes. The problem is modern system largely babysits women, and forces the man to take responsibility of the actions of women too, let's say a woman married to a guy, and then later divorced because she didn't like him? then he might have to pay child support, alimony because of her poor decision.
(((Enlightenment))) individualism is a huge part of how Whites lost the majority of our heritage and tradition. Multigenerational households and arranged marriage are not optional if you want to pass down your stigmas, traditions, and culture. Whites have used these multigenerational households for millennia, but the subversive nuclear family didn't even last a year before falling apart into single-mother hell. This is what happens when you let female consumerism guide the family unit with all its "individualism". The hypergamy destroys the society. Thankfully, history repeats itself, and the collapse is always followed by a reset. Control hypergamy with arranged marriage, or society is on a 200 year timer.
many still believe white women are whores
Are they wrong tho?
This is increasingly no longer the case. They are getting Westernized. The Iron Curtain may be what kept them from becoming degenerate like the rest of western women.
India still has arranged marriage. I can tell you that it's a disaster
But modern TV tells me that arranged Indian marriage is the way!
There was a show called Royal Pains, about a rich German dying of a disease hiring a private Jewish doctor, who had been fired from a hospital for killing a patient, to save him. Much of the plot centers around this doctor being screwed over by his money-grubbing nebbish brother, and their adventures in judaism.
Anyhow, a subplot is that the doctor hires an Indian assistant and she is supposed to be in an arranged marriage to a respectable (I guess) Indian man, but she fights it. This leads to her becoming a turbo-whore and even having a fling marriage with some Latin American stud, resulting in a de facto bastard son being born.
Ultimately, after literal years of dissatisfaction, she decides that her parents were right and she marries the arranged Indian dude. Probably the only wholesome thing about the show.
of course it depends on the parents, but not all the parents are smart enough, especially when they are poor, or blinded by caste, religion nonsenses. In India, many jain gujaratis don't want their children marry from another group. So they push their children to marry only jain gujaratis. Since the jain gujarati population is somewhat low, it can be tough to find a partner, especially if their children are not that desirable by the group. I am not saying arranged marriages are always bad, but it can lead to a disaster as nowadays women are more independent. They have a different mindset than village women. They can make reckless decisions thinking it breaks their chains, but it eventually leads them to their demise. Not all the guys are same. Some guys won't accept a girl back once she left him.
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