I remember pulling into a Waffle House at 3:30am on a cold October night off I-95 in the southern part of South Carolina and ordering a cup of coffee with milk and sugar. Somewhere around Yamasee. The waitress (she was 40, I was 20) said, "If you wanted a cup of cream and sugar, why did you order coffee?" I had bags under my eyes like a young George Soros. Tired. I had no response. I'd been driving for the last 16 hours and just wanted a break from the road. She was White. There was no ill intent. I was way too tired to object to the discourtesy. The waitress immediately saw that and adjusted her attitude. She got my coffee and brought over a thumb-lid milk canister and packets of sugar for me.
Good girl.
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