I used a bull dyke when I was at my local hardware store and asked her where the bull dykes were. One male employee kind of smirked and she said "we don't carry those? I can check though". I always will wonder what happened because she isn't there anymore. Either she figured out my comment or her coworker said something. He's still there though and I don't bring it up but he sometimes sees me and there's a slight laugh or smile.