Because Cluster B personality disordered people make it their life duty to attempt to drag everyone down to their level of misery. Instead of focussing on their own life achievements (which they have none), or their grit to do things in general (which they don't) - they have to shortcut their way to special privileges, power, or prestige and drag down others in the process. It's why I don't willingly associate with such clowns - they are a waste of time and space.