> I'm judging her As you should. > judge not least ye be judged This doesn't mean don't judge people. It means don't judge people from unreasonably high platitudes or with malice. It means if you're going to judge, expect to be judged by the same standard. You should judge people. As Christians you should judge people to encourage moral and spiritual righteousness. If people don't tell you the expected standards, how can you live up to the standards? If someone says don't judge me, they are admitting they know the standards and refuse to comply. They should hear they failed. Here, she says don't judge me because she has judged herself and found herself to be immoral. She simply hopes you don't reach the same conclusion.