It’s all good, I understood where you were coming from but also recognized that you guys were making two different points about phobias. I think both apply to homophobia. You don’t have to have a phobia of gays to be called homophobic, in the sense that you just find it grotesque and unnatural. It’s also completely natural to have a phobia of gays, because it’s something completely unnatural. You’re both right, I was just trying to speed up the connection that you guys weren’t saying the same thing