To be fair, she does blame herself and notes she was more attentive to the legalities of her honeymoon insurance than her status as married. She said a separation-divorce takes 2-5 years, in which she notes feelings of bitterness. And yet, divorced she seems more concerned with losing friends, finances, and her google ratings for her married double-barrelled last name than her past relationship. She seems to think weddings are only about having "the perfect day" with flowers and frilly dresses. Towards the end she finally writes some small paragraph about her husband, blink and you'd miss it. It's less about him but more about noting that he existed. And then she runs off into some feminist propaganda tirade again about how men are evil and divorce 'should be about equality' and women's suffrage in 1912... To be honest, she's well on her path to being a professor in gender studies with 72 cats. And then there's the fact she feels the need to post her dirty laundry on-line to generate clicks.