What we want is for women to quit pretending they're equals when they can't be bothered to figure anything out for themselves. They won't cook or clean because they think asking that of them is akin to treating them like a slave, yet they expect men to fix everything in their lives the moment something becomes more complicated than drinking wine and applying eyeliner. You're either an equal, or you're a housekeeper with a cock holster. You don't get to reject all female gender roles while relying upon male ones to ensure your survival.