Pushing boundaries? Sure. Breaking the rules? No. Boundary pushing is important because it establishes the firm line between whether something breaks the rules or not. And according to the rules (as they are currently written) it clearly did not break the rules, though I agree it is close. Us stating the simple fact that a 25 year old real woman is not a "loli" or a "child" is not gaslighting. You, on the other hand, have repeatedly lied and called her a loli (thus causing other people in this thread to falsely believe that he posted anime porn). That's textbook gaslighting.