>>.what the fuck are you even going on about? This is the classic “playing dumb” tactic. By pretending she/he (still not clear) doesn’t understand what you want, or what you want "it" to do, the manipulator/passive-aggressive makes you take on what is her responsibility, and gets you to break a sweat. Some children use this tactic in order to delay, stall, and manipulate adults into doing for them what they don’t want to do. Some grown-ups use this tactic as well when they have something to hide, or obligation they wish to avoid.