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They don't call it testilying for nothing.

% of people actually punished for it : zero

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This is why it is ok to beat your wife. If your wife lies, you beat her. If she thinks about calling the cops, you beat her. Eventually she learns that you are stronger and smarter than her in every way and that she is inferior and she will never go against your will again.

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ever wonder why there were homeless women crying in the gutter? its because they got caught like this one and back then men had the balls to do something about it.

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I could envision a scenario wherein a woman would be wise to do this. It's a specific and not universal behavior though. 87% of the time women get custody. You'd have to be a pipe hitting gang member biotch to lose your kid then have Chairman Mao for a husband to justify this.

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You can envision a scenario where she should lie to win custody?? I can't. If there is reason the kids should not be with dad tell the truth about it and if not they should be able to split custody.

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There are various crimes often weighed as heavily in the justice system. The stoned on marijahoocha mom playing w/ her 6 year old isn't as bad the man beating her half to death for doing so. It's kind of a pointless argument as the mother generally gets the kids. Women can be equally evil as men. It just seems to happen less often and it's better to play the odds sometimes. Sometimes even an imperfect system is better overall. I got the shit kicked out of me over years that ended in a custody battle where I chose my mother. Custody rates are a result of trying to simplify complex situations based on stats. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's fatal. The stakes couldn't be higher.

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So your point is that in your hypothetical situation the women should lie that she doesn't smoke pot or only on rare occasions so saying it might still come up on a test so tgey can get out of an abuse situation?? If that's the case I guess I can see your point however that's not really what this video is addressing.

This is about women lying that they were beated, rapped, or that the same happened to the children. Sure do those things happen sometimes? Yes and that's very sad and horrible but it should not be lied about to get custody and to hurt thier ex. It might get them what they want in the moment but these things come to light at some point and that behavior does not get better. They lie about being abused but really doing that has turned them into the abuser. It also makes real abuse cases hard to believe and I think it's very disrespectful to real abuse survives.

My brother is going through this kind of thing right now. She has claimed all sorts of abuse, she is lying and the court does not care if it's true or not. She gets the kids and he gets supervised visitation if it fits into her schedule and he has to feed them dinner the couple times a week he does get to see them. He has to pay child support to the point he had to move in with a family member. I think this behavior is abusive to my brother but also the kids who went with living with both parents to a shelter then with just mom and not seeing their dad for 7 months and they have no idea why.

Honestly divorce in of it self I think 90% or higher even is bad and wrong and most times people could work past the differences and have a healthy marriage. If we as a socity think that breaking up families is ok for "happiness" then at least let's not think lying about abuse is ok.