women just play "navy", they play "army" they play their lives. they dont even realize theres a possibility theyll have to go to war.
I think you nailed it.
If you don't want to be first in the fight, you're a liability to those around you. Experience might tell you that you need to back off and wait for your moment, but you have to have that drive deep down inside to jump in and start swinging. Otherwise, you're just wearing a uniform.
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