Men do not want to date men or to be more specific women, who try and fail, to take on male jobs/responsibilities. In general men want a woman who is willing to be his partner. She takes care of herself and always tries to look her best, not like the overweight frizzy haired slobs at the local walmart. Her job is to cook, clean, take care of her man and their children. She's not a servant, as feminism likes to portray, A real woman takes pride in her home, in her family and how she/they are procieved by the community. His job is to bring home the bacon, her job is to cook it, do his laundry and save the lose change from his pants for a rainy day.