>So you are suggesting this is the fault of the patriarchy. Thats not it at all. Not at all. Crunchy and I are having a slightly egg-headed dispassionate discussion about what is going on from an evolutionary POV. We aren’t talking about fault. Whites and many other groups have had marriage traditions where the female transfers her allegiance when she abandons her birth family and adopts her husbands family. This is the nature of patriarchy. Everyone doesnt do it this way. Probably a lot of africans. Crunchy made the suggestion that it might have to do with women’s lack of ‘loyalty’ to a traditional white male ‘tribe’ or the nuclear family; I said it was interesting. At some godamn point, we’re going to have to stop pointing fingers at each other, study the problem and implement a solution. That will not happen if you keep on squawking about how feminists are squawking about the patriarchy! There should be no sides except for white people’s side. Get it? Our instincts have been twisted and our culture has been subverted. These are the natural mechanisms through which we regulate our society. Social parasites have infiltrated and distorted our culture with misinformation. And so everyone is malfunctioning. Men and women. You were triggered when someone said patriarchy because its a buzzword the left uses. Step back from the problem and be more analytical . You cannot see the forest through the trees if you keep blaming women.