A woman instinctively is attracted to a man who will be able to protect and provide for her and her children. Choose one: the guy who will let people walk on him or the guy who stands up to them at real social cost. The guy who says what he means or the guy who unconsciously betrays a lack of conviction. The guy who knows what he wants or the guy who doesn't. The leader or the follower. The guy who stands out or the guy who fits in. The reasons are blindingly obvious.