https://pic8.co/sh/CZFF0z.jpeg https://pic8.co/sh/JoEMBo.jpeg https://pic8.co/sh/2Kvnce.jpeg She was a daughter, an aunt, a sister. She was a white woman, so *she was my sister*. Was she already lost long before she died? Maybe. But *she was lost*, and it's the loss that I mourn, regardless of the exact moment it happened. Like all the others here, it was a loss that could have been prevented. Whatever blame we can place on a misguided 20-year-old girl, it doesn't absolve us of responsibility. We allowed this to happen. We keep allowing this to happen.