I will never own a house unless my mom dies (and I adore her) and it will be a double wide in Georgia. I don't think I will be able to retire. I fucked up when I was young and exs took what little 401k I had (it happens to women, too). I have worked since I was 14. I loved college only in the sense of what I forced myself to learn, not what they wanted. I knew school for what it was starting in elementary school. My mom got called a lot for an A and B student lol. Americans first. Anchor babies should not exist. My bf is Hispanic, does not speak Spanish, his family has never been illegal, they are from Texas. I know he agrees. He also works for the same company under a different team, with less indians though they are threatening his team now too. I'm in BI so it is just expected. Bosshole likes me because I'm weird and don't suck up so he can embarrass me with weird awkward questions and feed his narcissism. But he will replace me with some dot as soon as he has the option. My direct boss likes me and seems to want to be American and Americanize his kids. I help with book recommendations (I was a librarian before they went nuts) but seriously. Americans need to take precedence. In IT the greed is over taking everything.