Well thats good she has an escape to cool off. There have been times that would have been nice. I must have missed the post somehow, admittedly I have been distracted for the past week or so between here and the whole house buying thing, and the job thing and well life is complicated sometimes, the older I get the more I believe this to be true. The new site looks like a pretty cool idea. I'll keep an eye on it. I like the idea of having that kind of catalog. Also, since its on my mind more today than most, why exactly do banks need to do things in so many different steps. All the rounds and rounds documentation and the individual approvals from all these different people. Wouldn't it be far more effienct to just ask for all the paper work up from send it to each person once and be done with it? The way I see it they would at least save on labor that way. Well I'd say you are treading a fine line with a gorgeous women in the house and the misses aways but the way I see it you are probably smart enough and more importantly wise enough at this point not to make those types of mistakes. Also I seem to remember something about rule with fellow band members. Anyway I'll quit my rambling at least for this comment.
When buying property, banks are (usually) very careful and want to document every step. They want to check every step. There's also a variety of laws that require them to do things in the way they do them. It's actually quite a bit easier if you're not taking a mortgage out and you're just buying it with cash - but that's unrealistic for most folks.
Yeah, she's got a place to go spend some time. She'll be back no later than Friday, as we have a show on Friday.
Good times! She'll get over it. Or not...
Meh... I kind of like her. We've been together longer than I've been with most girlfriends. It may sound unusual, but it's pretty much destined to end at some point. I don't actually have a history of staying with anyone for very long. It has been like five years, maybe six. That's actually like 12 times longer than my usual relationships last.
You'll note that I don't use the word love. I don't think I love her. I won't know until after she's gone, I guess. I like her and we usually get along very well. But, right now my life's pretty full and she's not used to the hive of activity. She doesn't have kids for a reason. She's not big on that whole hive of activity thing.
Yeah I have to go the mortgage route but I know most get it done in a month or two. Its been 3, I'm just getting frustrated with them, I get the reasons I just dislike all the inefficiency of it.
Yet another show. Do you have one next week? If so maybe I can see that one depending on how things play out.
You have an interesting take on romantic relationships I'll give you that. Almost the opposite of my take for as long as I can remember. I met my wife when I was 11 years old decided I would marry her that day, and 7 years later I did. Its been almost 13 years and we are better off than we have ever been. She puts up with all of my shit. She even puts up with me excitedly talking about seeing your state without her and the kids for a few days while she is pregnant. My point of view is I will never let her go and she has the same dedication too me. I can't imagine a mindset that would allow me to not commit to her. Different strokes I suppose.
Why is it you won't know until after she is gone? I think of love more like a verb and a noun its not just something that happens its something you choose and do. Perhaps thats just me though.
I suppose if a women actively chooses not to have children then it would be a good indicator she doesn't like crowds.
Yeah, we have a private function the following weekend. Which means I can't really invite anyone to that.
And, you only truly know if you loved something after it's gone. At least that's my observation. When your heart's ground into the dirty under the heel of a boot - then you know you love her. When there's that hole in your heart that just rips your life to shreds, that's when you know it was love.
Prior to that, it could just be infatuation or in lust! I've been in lust with lots of people. I've only been in love with a few. Hell, I've shagged all sorts of chicks that I didn't even really like. They were just cute and there.
Also, some banks are better than other banks. I much, much prefer credit unions. I'm not just a customer, I'm a member! I don't have a "checking" account. I have a "share" account. I own a share of the credit union!
Damned socialist, is what I am!
I kinda am, too. Not in the sense that many use it, but I like fire departments, roads, social safety nets, and whatnot. I like to be able to get places, not have the forest burn down, and not have to worry about people trying to steal my stuff!
Ah well...
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