How do I solve problems? That would depend on how far away they are. How many times have "enemies thought processes" been changed simply by the apparent readiness of their opponents to dispute the matter in question with steel (or bronze)? Philip II of Macedon to Sparta: "Should I come as friend or foe?" Sparta's reply: "Neither." Losing patience with them, he sent the message: "If I invade Laconia, I shall turn you out." Sparta: "If."