What the actual fuck? No, the key to a happy marriage is to not be a degen and to marry someone of high value that won't do (or put up with) shit like this. Archive: https://archive.today/OjxUF From the post: "Dear Jane, A few years ago I uncovered a shocking secret about my parents' marriage and it has completely destroyed my thoughts about their relationship, as well as my views on love in general. For most of my life, I've thought that my mom and dad had a pretty good marriage. They didn't really argue, they made each other laugh, and, while they weren't the most lovey dovey with one another, they always seemed happy together."