Most women don't understand men because they've never had to pursue them in the way that men have had to pursue women. Because of this, because women have never been made to 'pursue' in the traditional sense that men have always been made to, their minds largely remain infantile. Of course they're better incels. We've created a system where reality can't slap women in a way that makes them better. Men can have that luxury, to an extent, but women live it.