Ok, you have men wanting to be women, women wanting to be men, gays, trans, etc. So noone is happy with the way things are. Or the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. This woman doesn't love herself, she hates herself. She can't bring herself to care about another human being because she can't accept herself for who she is and therefore cannot accept anyone else for who they are. She will have two cats living with her for the rest of her life.