Even if you're at work and you're a sober person and they're "regular drinkers", they will still begin to hate you for not having a "drinkers personality". But they'll make all kinds of excuses like "that person should loosen up" "be cool" "take it easy" etc. How about you be sober and quit fucking imposing who people should be? I'm seeing this consistently from people who drink regularly and not from a SINGLE person who is sober. I drank regularly (once a weekend) for one year and I became all these people's friends (nothing changed other than I drank out of their presence), then I stopped drinking and they went right back. But now this time particularly jaded.