You’re both missing the mark here. Women are attracted to high-value men. If you act in a way that will make her feel like you’re superior (without being an annoying douchbag), she’ll find you attractive. I can unfortunately attest to this from experience in my younger years - some black chicks are turned on at the idea of being treated like property… but then, most women enjoy a bit of that treatment. So yeah, the joke is “I’M BETTER THAN YOU, NIGGER!” “What???… oh, that’s hot.”