>>I need a solution If you choose to VOLUNTARILY subject yourself to the standard alpha-beta social hierarchy paradigm (and you don't like it), you're fucked. 1) You can start your own business, and eventually your own business "family", with your own vision of what that entails. 2) Or, go Outlaw (not necessarily criminal) - just stay low profile enough that you don't attract the wrong kind of attention, avoiding of course any sort of infraction which would be considered Malum in se, while choosing to ignore, as needed, anything falling under heading of Malum prohibitum. As the old saying goes, If you accept what they're giving you, you deserve what you get.