That's not harassment, that's shit talkin. I take it she must have been kicking ass and they did that so they can return to a pecking order where they are far ahead of the other guys who might not even give a fuck about the game. Hell if I was ahead they'd be calling me a faggot and if I complained as a man I would be a faggot so it's everyone that gets shit but most of us don't even care and do not complain about it either or we end up a whiner or a faggot in everyone's eyes.