This one is a hard one. Based off my experience, pagan women are more expressive and less reliant on a traditional gender system, which works out much better in the long run. Being overly reliant on gender roles ends up causing humongous headaches over time, as the onus becomes on you to pretty much guess every single problem in existence. This is something im dealing with in my current relationship which was never an issue before
I'm not sure if I understand what you mean? Is your woman expecting that you sort out all problems yourself?
In a way, yes. It's hard to explain fully, but by treating said woman like a child, things work great. However, by trying to enforce some standard of adulthood, things tend to fall apart really fast. So the problems never really get sorted, unless i make it a point to solve said problem
I don't think this is a religion problem that you have. Sounds like you should be more assertive.
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