>but it also says the parents should respect the kids or they shall be forsaken by them.
To a degree yes, but it is not one of the ten commandments (which is more liable to be violated and more egregious).
Saying that they'll be forsaken by them is just stating a fact, not giving permission.
If you really want the truth on this, research what the puritans and reformers said about it in the 1600s.
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