Considering the only point to it is self pleasure and that the thoughts that go with it are most certainly fornication; yes. Since this self pleasuring is a sin, find a woman to marry so that you are no longer tempted to fornicate. I pray you are able to overcome these temptations by the grace of God. I personally have dealt with this temptation and thank the Lord Jesus that I have been able to overcome it. It was not easy, but through prayer and fasting, it can be done. Many blessings brother.