I am praying, binding, loosing, declaring God's will over my marriage (He is NOT a God of divorce). I emotionally neglected my wife..didn't even really realize I was doing it. She is hurt very badly as I now realize. I love her so much and have been doing the hard work during our separation to make myself better for her. Counseling like crazy, stopped drinking cold turkey, stopped smoking weed. Been seeking the Lord and he has changed and continues to change me. I have truly repented and turned from my past ways. She filed for divorce in December. Here in Texas, there is a 60 day "cooling off period" where the divorce can't be finalized before that time passes. That time passes in mid March. Earlier this month, I had her at least considering that we talk more so that she can see that I am different. That got mucked up. I am turning it over to God as he is the only one who can soften her heart. I certainly can't. Anyone been here before and come out the other side? Prayers are welcomed. I pray for her heart's healing and softening, and my continued rebuild to be more like Christ. Obviously I want reconciliation and my marriage saved. But none of that can happen without God working in her heart in the first place.