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I give my father privacy like I have given everyone privacy. I have never had interest in “snooping.”

Because of dad letting his phone getting taken over by random apps on his Android phone popping up ads everywhere, I had to sit down with him and address the risk of his loneliness.

2 months ago, I was making his dinner and could see him on some type of dating platform. Dad is 67. He is decling across the board, and is definitely bait for teams of sharks who manipulate and rob men.

I could see he was looking at profiles of much younger women. He was zooming in on their chests. I didn’t say anything, but realized he was setting himself up as a target.

Tonight, his phone was receiving notifications from dating groups on Facebook. He has published personal information, and has started communications with scammers half his age (my age) to fill emptiness.

I sat down with him to explain, to try to explain, that he is a target. Initially, he was defensive. He was receiving messages from much younger women.

This was one of my biggest concerns. He was open to receiving my warnings. What that leads to is yet to be determined.

I’m faced with wanting to monitor his conversations when I’m someone who respects privacy.

I recorded our conversation. I’m very worried he will get tricked. I explained how the hustle works. He had already installed and started using WhatsApp to communicate with one of them.

That’s all I can share right now.

I give my father privacy like I have given everyone privacy. I have never had interest in “snooping.” Because of dad letting his phone getting taken over by random apps on his Android phone popping up ads everywhere, I had to sit down with him and address the risk of his loneliness. 2 months ago, I was making his dinner and could see him on some type of dating platform. Dad is 67. He is decling across the board, and is definitely bait for teams of sharks who manipulate and rob men. I could see he was looking at profiles of much younger women. He was zooming in on their chests. I didn’t say anything, but realized he was setting himself up as a target. Tonight, his phone was receiving notifications from dating groups on Facebook. He has published personal information, and has started communications with scammers half his age (my age) to fill emptiness. I sat down with him to explain, to try to explain, that he is a target. Initially, he was defensive. He was receiving messages from much younger women. This was one of my biggest concerns. He was open to receiving my warnings. What that leads to is yet to be determined. I’m faced with wanting to monitor his conversations when I’m someone who respects privacy. I recorded our conversation. I’m very worried he will get tricked. I explained how the hustle works. He had already installed and started using WhatsApp to communicate with one of them. That’s all I can share right now.

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Hey man, I feel for you, if I lived nearby I’d help you out. It’s a tough job all by yourself. Unload with us here all you need to as far as I’m concerned!

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I appreciate that. It builds up and festers. I hate this.

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Oh I know! It wears on you, your life gets put on hold and you don’t know for how long or what kind of plans you can make. Maybe contact the brother in law? If he could take him out for a “field trip” every now and then so you can have a day here and for yourself could be beneficial. I had so little help with my mom, but once in a great while one of her old friends would take her out to do something with her. Lol, for a few days would have been nice, but I took what I could get and it did help even if I just slept. I think it helps them too so….yeah, give him a call?

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Spot on. Absolutely spot on. Thanks.