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I give my father privacy like I have given everyone privacy. I have never had interest in “snooping.”

Because of dad letting his phone getting taken over by random apps on his Android phone popping up ads everywhere, I had to sit down with him and address the risk of his loneliness.

2 months ago, I was making his dinner and could see him on some type of dating platform. Dad is 67. He is decling across the board, and is definitely bait for teams of sharks who manipulate and rob men.

I could see he was looking at profiles of much younger women. He was zooming in on their chests. I didn’t say anything, but realized he was setting himself up as a target.

Tonight, his phone was receiving notifications from dating groups on Facebook. He has published personal information, and has started communications with scammers half his age (my age) to fill emptiness.

I sat down with him to explain, to try to explain, that he is a target. Initially, he was defensive. He was receiving messages from much younger women.

This was one of my biggest concerns. He was open to receiving my warnings. What that leads to is yet to be determined.

I’m faced with wanting to monitor his conversations when I’m someone who respects privacy.

I recorded our conversation. I’m very worried he will get tricked. I explained how the hustle works. He had already installed and started using WhatsApp to communicate with one of them.

That’s all I can share right now.

I give my father privacy like I have given everyone privacy. I have never had interest in “snooping.” Because of dad letting his phone getting taken over by random apps on his Android phone popping up ads everywhere, I had to sit down with him and address the risk of his loneliness. 2 months ago, I was making his dinner and could see him on some type of dating platform. Dad is 67. He is decling across the board, and is definitely bait for teams of sharks who manipulate and rob men. I could see he was looking at profiles of much younger women. He was zooming in on their chests. I didn’t say anything, but realized he was setting himself up as a target. Tonight, his phone was receiving notifications from dating groups on Facebook. He has published personal information, and has started communications with scammers half his age (my age) to fill emptiness. I sat down with him to explain, to try to explain, that he is a target. Initially, he was defensive. He was receiving messages from much younger women. This was one of my biggest concerns. He was open to receiving my warnings. What that leads to is yet to be determined. I’m faced with wanting to monitor his conversations when I’m someone who respects privacy. I recorded our conversation. I’m very worried he will get tricked. I explained how the hustle works. He had already installed and started using WhatsApp to communicate with one of them. That’s all I can share right now.

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Right on down to shit’n and piss’n ourselves.

Think I mentioned to you before, just when you think you get a handle on one thing they throw you for another loop somewhere else. Never a dull moment. Sometimes it’s humorous and harmless, other times quite concerning.

All you can do is do your best for them as best you can. Don’t beat yourself up over things you can’t control. It’s the toddler stage, independent enough, but oh boy the mischief and mayhem they can conjure up with that fading adult brain when eyes are not upon them. It’s a good chance your current situation and worries will soon evaporate and he will move on to some other way to drive you and himself crazy. ; )

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Spot on. Thanks for the replies.

The way things are right now, this is the only way I can talk about any of this.

[–] 1 pt

Hey man, I feel for you, if I lived nearby I’d help you out. It’s a tough job all by yourself. Unload with us here all you need to as far as I’m concerned!

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I appreciate that. It builds up and festers. I hate this.