Don't most women get turned off at men being "vulnerable"? In fact as far as I can tell, women get turned off by miserlyness and cowardice.
Yeah. Not a fan of the vulnerable part. A woman will never forget that. A bitch will hold it against you.
“Vulnerable” is the wrong word due to its having been co-opted.
Tender, trusting and transparent.
A proud father lovingly holding his child while in the sanctum he’s created through hard work and hard battle, the exposing of the underbelly to a beloved wife during the caring intimacy of sex, these are what women crave.
The things we like to believe they crave. Often I think what women crave the most is attention and jealousy from other women.
This is true as well.
I think she’s saying “vulnerable” in appropriate situations. Like, if your mom dies, it’s ok to cry. To remain strong and still have a heart is probably a better way to put it.
For example, everyone here hates pedos, right? That’s because we have hearts and moral standards. I’m sure there are pictures floating around in liberal laptops that would fill us all equally with sadness and rage. Being “vulnerable” enough to cry about such a huge injustice, but also strong enough to dole out justice.
Women get turned off at men who are constantly in a vulnerable state. The more they have to work (seduce) to get a tough man to trust her to the point where he can let his guard down with her in rare moments, the more valuable (attractive) those moments, and that vulnerable state, will be to her.
Don't most women get turned off at men being "vulnerable"?
You're misunderstanding what she means by vulnerable. Didn't your mom ever convince your Dad to do something that he was pushing back on initially because of "muh pride" and "muh way or the highway", but she could convince him because he let his guard down with her alone.
That's a type of vulnerability, but not the sappy streaming tears down cheeks kind of vulnerability that turns women off.
Hell no, and my ex was attracted to me precisely because I was good with my hands, and autistic levels of stoicism.
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