You are going to have to examine why you are a magnet for a certain personality type, then deconstruct the aspects of your courtships that attract that type of person.
Generally, that means waiting before screwing and using objective lists to decide who is worth your time and overriding your instincts during the initial phase in which you meet someone. Participating in a community with strong values is the best way to enter into a pool of suitable partners and then not hopping into bed with the first one is the best way to find what you need.
Anyone can fake being cool for a year, to a potential partner.
yeah i have bad luck in that due to being poor potential lifelong mates have had tendencies to abuse me and try to buy me back and my dumbass like nice things so in past have taken horrible scum of earth type women back knowing how abusive and manipulative they are
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